for those who wonder…

I have not forgotten about the update post about Spence’s birth father N.  I have had a talk with my friend at our agency and we are set to go and visit Oma and Opa and have a talk with them. I have talked Aunt Judy’s ear off and she has given me so much [...]

I love my mother to death…

…but sometimes she really pisses me off…I am over it…it did not last long..but man…she can grate on me…I guess that is a mothers job to some degree…I am certain that my boys would and do say the same things about me (or will very soon).
I had the gall to talk to her a little [...]

a long talk, a lot of searching and another discovery…

Thanks you ‘burnbeforereading’ (BBR), for the talk this morning.  You brought a lot of things into better perspective from your families POV.  I appreciate that.
After BBR and I hung up I did a little bit more reading at N’s facebook page. I found out that he has three sisters and a brother and he appears [...]

the post…still processing….not coherent thoughts yet…

PROCESSING COHERENT thoughts….things that we are doing right now.Keep this in mind reading this post.

We have always known ‘who’ Spencer’s birth father is, as in his name.  We have known his name (N) and how he and Spencer’s birthmom (D) knew each other. We have known D’s side of the story about how they [...]

something to write about but no time….

I have something adoption related to post about but no time right now….PLEASE come back and read and help me process…it is not anything BAD.

I suppose that I should have added a bit more…

…I have a friend who wants to get some adoption things out . She is not wanting everyone and Joe reading. She does not want a blog permenantly.. she wants to have adoption people give her some feed back.  So for her, I said I would take the blog private for a few weeks let [...]

Our favorites…and a little more

SO the Christmas gifts that were favorite this year…
Dad….lots of new cold weather shirts
mom…hand mixer
Spencer…Digital Camera
Griffin…all the blue things he got: Blue bike Helmet, Blue Radio/cd player
it was a great morning of leisure and fun…it took much longer to open gifts as Griffin wanted to explore each gift…Spencer was let’s get ‘em all open and [...]